Many people feel that they have lost control over their lives. They spend all their time at work and simply don’t find themselves capable of enjoying anything anymore. For Charles Phillips, whose work was his mistress for many years, it is important for people to regain control. Without being happy, people can’t perform properly at work anymore either, which leads to a drop in productivity. He has written a number of tips to help people see the possible damage they are doing by working too hard, and how to stop that pattern. The Cost of Being Married to the Job…